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Letter to Editor - re: Yard Sign Vandalism in Winnetka

Is the line of what's acceptable free speech different in 60093?

Dear Editor -

Inspired by brave Highland Park resident, Betsy Brint, who wrote an open letter to the person(s) that trespassed and stole from her (http://highlandpark.patch.com/articles/an-open-letter-to-my-yard-sign-vandal), we have a similar story with a Winnetka twist. 

Three days ago, we posted several anti-Romney signs in our front and side yard. Granted, the signs are "rated PG." (PARENTS - Be warned, graphic descriptions follow.  Shield young eyes).  They are cheeky and some would say "sophomoric," but our sense of humor leans that way.  It ruins the punchline to have to explain the joke, but before his Big Bird and 47% comments, the big Romney har-dee-har-har was the tale of when he stuck his dog on the car roof on a family vacation.  One of our signs says "You're doggone right I'm for Obama!"  Another one says "Dogs Against Romney. PEE Here!"  


There's dual meaning for that latter one.  Living across from the Village Green, we are guaranteed to see two things everyday -- canoodling pre-teens on the cannon and leash-law violators letting Scooby relieve himself on the cenotaph.  "PEE Here" is simply reminding those dog owners they have other options.   

On Friday afternoon, between 4:30 and 6:00 p.m. someone ripped two signs and tossed two others in the street. Replacements were promptly put up, but they were stepped on the following morning.  The Winnetka Police Department have filed a report and have promised to do more drive-bys.   

Reaction has been overwhelmingly positive.  Several people have come to the door to ask if they could pose for a picture outside.  I got high-fives and atta-go's from five tipsy strangers @ Little' Ricky's.  The pre-teens leaving Love's and heading to the Green give us "thumbs up."  On the flipside, we got one anonymous letter from "Fellow Winnekan Neighbor" and unnamed people mysteriously called the caucus chair to tattle.  

We're not mad at whoever did this.  But we're puzzled.  I've lived in some sticksville towns (Grand Forks, ND, Clovis, NM, Mountain Home, ID) and major metros (NYC, LA, SF), and I've always displayed my viewpoints with colorful, edgy bumper stickers, yard signs, etc.  Yet only in Winnetka have our signs have been trashed and several of our car stickers removed. Why is that?   Is the line of what's acceptable free speech different in 60093?  We're genuinely curious and hope people will voice their opinions below.

Cheers - - Jen McQuet528 Maple

Jennifer Mcquet October 12, 2012 at 01:44 pm
Sully -
No sophomore year. Manzanita T.P.
Jennifer Mcquet October 12, 2012 at 01:48 pm
Claire - The signs aren't free. And it's illegal for someone to be on another person's property at night. You can think I'm stupid, crass or offensive, but none of those things is out-lawed. Maybe under your moral code, but not in the U.S.A.
Claire Hill October 12, 2012 at 02:02 pm
I agree with you that it's illegal for someone to be on another person's property without their permission. It is also illegal to steal their private property. However, this does not mean that anyone has to agree with your message. As I said earlier in this thread, people steal signs all the time. Yes, it's juvenile, but it happens on both sides of the aisle, so stop making yourself the victim. Also, you failed to address my question about an anti-Obama sign. I would be interested to hear your thoughts on that.
Claire Hill October 12, 2012 at 02:06 pm
Also, I find it offensive that you would question my moral code. Just because I may not agree with you politically doesn't make me some sort of criminal.
J. Weinberg October 12, 2012 at 02:12 pm
I think it is a shame that with all the real problems in the world that this is the best we can do. I love SNL, but it is my choice to turn it off when I want to. I was in Denver visiting my son and on my way home our plane was delayed as a Marine honor guard escorted the remains of one of OUR soldiers home. Everyone stopped and looked on with reverence. Elections are about what we want to be. Why not keep our eye on the ball and be part of the solution. Funny is great, the world needs to laugh. This election is not a laugh, why turn it into one?
Marie-Helene October 12, 2012 at 03:33 pm
Everyone calm down, for Heaven's sake! Ms Mcquet's Romney signs are base, but they do belong to her, so stop stealing them. Why waste taxpayer money paying police to do extra patrols and fill out police reports for the theft of trash? The rude sentiment on the Romney sign is not going to change anyone's mind about the candidate for whom they will vote, although it may change a person's opinion of the character and intellect of the person who has so proudly posted it. Either way, we are all of us entitled to express our opinions, be they high-minded or low-minded, so leave the idiot signs alone!
Laxer October 12, 2012 at 04:54 pm
hey, mz. mcquet we talked about free speech in government yesterday and also in advisory. we talked about what people said about your signs. do adults think teenagers are not smart enough to gt a joke and would do something like that on thegrass? don't throw us under the bus. come on people!
Marie-Helene October 13, 2012 at 06:13 pm
Oh, Ms. Mcquet, do give those who live in less"lofty" zip codes credit for being able to recognize rubbish when they see it. Your signs would be considered trashy anywhere. It doesn't take residence in a fancy North Shore Chicago town to comprehend your ceaseless baying for what it is -- a Munchausean plea and childish demand for attention. tswinnetka has a point, although he or she could have expressed it in a more refined manner. If you and your sense of humor are so superior to that of others in the 60093 zip code, why don't you leave there? Surely the trailer park at Stanford would be happy to have you back.
blackwidow October 13, 2012 at 09:13 pm
M-H
You just made the same angry and insane personal accusations....but in a "much more refined manner!" Not!!!! The original letter was about sign theft, freedom of speech, Winnetka's code of acceptability...can we get back to that?
M October 14, 2012 at 03:28 am
Wow. The problems you face there on the Northshore sure are serious. Maybe I should bring up some of my homeless neighbors up from our 'hood to pee on Ms. Mcquet's porch... I mean sign. They could set up right on the village green and keep an eye out for brazen criminals lurking around her yard. They just want to know if the Grand accepts the Link Card.
Marie-Helene October 14, 2012 at 10:08 pm
No, M, the invitation is meant for dogs, not humans. But maybe you and your friends could bring your dogs. Just don't put them on top of your car, they should be IN the car. Don't know whether or not the Grand accepts the Link Card. You could always ask.
Glad to be from Glencoe October 15, 2012 at 03:05 am
Go Jen for having the courage and sense of humor to put up a wacky sign that goes against the grain of severely conservative (and humorless apparently) Winnetka. Honestly, I don't know how you are able to live there at all, I almost throw up when exposed to the entitlement, feelings of superiority, and lack of generosity of that town. Maybe not everyone is like that but there sure are a high concentration of people that way!
nsmom October 15, 2012 at 09:31 pm
While I applaud the sign and Jen, I've seen equally entitled and obnoxious behavior in Glencoe for over 20 years, I'm afraid. It's not unique to Winnetka. It's all around us.
Jennifer Mcquet October 15, 2012 at 10:37 pm
Was sent this link and found it relevant/funny:
http://sayitaintsoalready.com/2012/07/31/best-yard-sign-in-the-history-of-the-planet/romney-pee-here-yard-sign-via-dogs-against-romney-com/ Also wanted to report - no yard trespassing in the last three days! But got a complaint from the Hadley School for the Blind that one of their trustees told them (but for some reason didn't come over directly to our house) he/she thought it was disrespectful and should be moved to a spot unseen from their front door. Two points -- 1. he/she/trustee should not have involved an uninvolved 3rd party (our wonderful neighbors, the Hadley School) if they had an issue, they should have come to us. 2. He/she/trustee -- was changing the language of the sign to make it more offensive when they tattled to Hadley and embellished its position on our lawn... it isn't visible to anyone from the Hadley's front door. We can take - and welcome - anyone that wants to come to us and directly criticize the sign. But the passive-aggressive folks that involve neighbors, employers or near & dear charities in order to reach us are only inflicting uncomfortable situations for innocents 3rd parties. Hadley Trustee, please have the nuts or guts to come to us directly. You do understand that we're neighbors and we volunteer for them all the time, but they do not own our yard. You should seek the source, not the softest source nearby.
Marie-Helene October 16, 2012 at 02:29 pm
And so continues the persecution of 60093's most vocal political commentator, this time by a vicious Hadley trustee. On the other hand, it's good to hear that there has been no trespassing or theft...
Jennifer Mcquet October 16, 2012 at 04:20 pm
MH -
Your continued concern for our property is touching. It really is! I'm feeling closer to you each day. But I spoke too soon, I was @ Greeley for 3 hours this morning. And now the driveway sign is gone. Ka-ching....more spending of $$s and time to exercise "free" speech.
Marie-Helene October 16, 2012 at 05:01 pm
Jennifer -- despite our differences of opinion, and there are clearly many, it's not right for people to steal or vandalize your signs or any other of your property. Also, your tenacity is admirable.
MH
Jennifer Mcquet October 16, 2012 at 05:23 pm
I admire yours as well. Sincerely.
Marie-Helene October 16, 2012 at 05:40 pm
Thank you!
Jennifer Mcquet October 16, 2012 at 07:06 pm
U R welcome.
Maybe in a weird way we just demonstrated how two sides and come together and agree to disagree and focus on the legit big issues (crime, 1st amendment, for example) and not get caught up on the inflammatory ways sometimes we (me = guilty as others) express opinions. I did not see this result coming with my original letter or the posts that followed, but I have to say, "MH, your post made my day."
Ann Airey October 16, 2012 at 09:23 pm
As Betsy Brint said in her original posting, every time you replace your sign, it's more money to Obama... I wonder if the sign stealers realize that?!
Marie-Helene October 16, 2012 at 10:06 pm
Jennifer -- agreed. Your post made my day as well. It's nice to know that we can engage in spirited debate (we do get vituperative, don't we?) and still be able to express our mutual respect for one another. Have a great evening. MH
Jennifer Mcquet October 25, 2012 at 09:03 pm
And on the note, I just spent another $80 (+ shipping) for 4 more signs. Even my other, "tamer" signs were nicked today. One said Tea Parties are for Little Girls w/Imaginary Friends." I thought that was genuinely cute! And the other a simple MITT with a red circle/slash.
If people that are for Romney have to resort to trespassing and stealing -- repeatedly -- it's a pretty sad statement about how desperate they must feel.
Molly October 25, 2012 at 09:48 pm
This comment may be the result of months of listening to newscasters, op Ed columns and various friends but I'm a bit hesitant to endorse your new signage. I've spoken out prior to this in support of both yourself and Betsy B. to display a political sign in your yard. And you still have that right but I would rather you support your particular politician w/o the funny, yet insulting signs. I enjoy the wit & humor but wonder if we should rise above insulting "the other side". Just pondering from an election weary citizen.
Jared Boyar October 27, 2012 at 11:32 am
I thought I was the only person who read this e-paper. I'm glad to see that there are seven others that do as well.
Catherine Karabas October 27, 2012 at 08:42 pm
I'm on my 4th election sign because they keep getting stolen out of my front yard. I think it's kids, because adults surely understand that stealing a sign won't change my vote. That said, elections are serious and especially this year, when people feel so much is at stake, I feel it lacks integrity to make 'sophomoric' humor about the opposing candidate instead of just supporting yours. Our kids are watching us.
Molly October 27, 2012 at 11:33 pm
Scary thought...today's kids, tomorrows politicians. Lets raise them right folks.
Jennifer Mcquet November 8, 2012 at 12:00 am
I was very happy to take my signs down this morning. End of chapter '12....
Folks might find this entertaining.... http://blogs.miaminewtimes.com/riptide/2012/11/floridian_steals_neighbors_oba.php
North Shore Lady February 15, 2013 at 08:09 pm
I thought people of Winnetka had class...grow up and stop making the rest of us look bad.
Jennifer Mcquet February 15, 2013 at 10:10 pm
Hi, North Shore Lady -
Am curious why you came on to this old blog.....3 1/2 months after it finished (very happily, I might add...with me and "Marie-Helene" making peace and the elections being over). It was unclear who you were insulting on my most recent blog. Now I assume it's me that you think needs your prescription of "Botox and wine"? How do I make you/us look bad? Who defines class? Please be more specific in future posts. And consider using a real name, it adds credibility. - Jen

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